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Cheating occurs in a committed partnership such as a marriage or a relationship, when one party strays beyond his or her marriage to seek solace ( in what ever form) from an outsider. Cheating comes in different forms including emotional, physical and so on. Emotional cheating happens when a party transfers and places the burden of filling their emotional needs to an outsider in the marriage or relationship. It could be through texts like WhatsApp messages. Instead of confiding in their partner, they are more comfortable with someone outside. These emotions could be anger, fear, love, sexual or others. Of course physical/sexual cheating occurs when one party physically meets up with an outsider to their marriage or relationship and does what they should be doing with their partner, with this outsider. It is mostly sexual but not in all cases. Once you are somewhere with someone outside your partner, doing what you should be doing with your partner with this outsider, AND YOUR PARTN...

Most of us have gone through one heartbreak or the other, and by heartbreak, I mean the romantic type hunay. I remember my first real heartbreak and looking back now, there are some things I would have done differently like not dwell too much on it because it would only prolong your healing process. Ok so, how do you get over a heartbreak. Valentine’s Day is here so this post would come in handy for those of you (tongue out) that would suffer a heartbreak on that blessed day; oh I pray for you sister and brother. Ok, let’s be serious now. How do you get over a romantic heartbreak; here are 5 ways to do that. 1. ACCEPTANCE  See, it’s a heartbreak right? Yes, that’s what it is. You should start singing,  “We are never ever, ever, ever getting back together” (I forget how many “evers” but be free to add as many as you feel like. Yeah, you broke up and are never ever ever getting back together with your  ex, right? Oh well, maybe you will someday, I mean, never sa...

First of all, we are all guilty of this, let’s not even deny it. You meet someone and you immediately assume something about them. “Hmmm, she just looks like she would have a sugar daddy”. “No, he’s definitely a yahoo boy”. We just assume things about people we hardly even know.  I have had people tell me that when they first met me, they thought I was stuck up. Some say they thought I was mean and that I had this mean look. I know I’m working on smiling a lot but come on, MEAN?? Again some have said it was hard to approach me because they felt I would be cold and mean and they didn’t want to be embarrassed.  I have to tell you, it didn’t feel good hearing all that because they are not in any way a representation of who I really am. I’m a blunt person, I know (sometimes a tad too blunt for my own good), but I am not mean at all. But, what did I do about all those negative assumptions people had about me? I decided to work on myself; heck I’m still working on myself....