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MY FRIEND HAS A NEW FRIEND

So your really close friend has a new friend and has relegated you to the background? Both of you used to be as tight as thieves, you knew each other’s secrets, you went out together and have gone through a lot (good and bad) together. Now you see things between the both of you falling apart. You feel the gulf getting wider and wider and it seems like there’s nothing you can do. Initially, you felt you were overreacting about the reality of status of your friendship but you do feel like you are drowning and helpless. You think about the good times, the laughs, the tears...Now you can’t even put a finger to what’s really going on because you cannot understand it. You realize that you are losing your friend gradually to this new friend. Good, now that you have come to the realization, what are you going to do about it? Now that this new friend has taken your place in your friend’s life, what do you do? This is a friendship that has lasted almost 10 years. So WHAT DO YOU DO? Here...

5 WAYS TO GET OVER A HEARTBREAK

Most of us have gone through one heartbreak or the other, and by heartbreak, I mean the romantic type hunay. I remember my first real heartbreak and looking back now, there are some things I would have done differently like not dwell too much on it because it would only prolong your healing process. Ok so, how do you get over a heartbreak. Valentine’s Day is here so this post would come in handy for those of you (tongue out) that would suffer a heartbreak on that blessed day; oh I pray for you sister and brother. Ok, let’s be serious now. How do you get over a romantic heartbreak; here are 5 ways to do that. 1. ACCEPTANCE  See, it’s a heartbreak right? Yes, that’s what it is. You should start singing,  “We are never ever, ever, ever getting back together” (I forget how many “evers” but be free to add as many as you feel like. Yeah, you broke up and are never ever ever getting back together with your  ex, right? Oh well, maybe you will someday, I mean, never sa...